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Baptist Church Statement of Faith
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Section 1: The Bible
We believe the Bible (containing the 66 books
of the Old and New Testament) is the word
of God, fully inspired by Him through the
Holy Spirit in the original manuscripts (2
Timothy 3:15-17).
Since
God's word is both true and everlasting, it
is our supreme authority for faith and conduct.
His word is absolutely trustworthy, inerrant
and infallible--it cannot be proven false,
erroneous or mistaken (Isaiah 40:8; Matthew
24:35; John 14:23-24, 17:17; 2 Timothy 3:16;
1 John 2:4-5; 1 Peter 1:24-25)
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Section 2: God
We believe that there is but one living, true,
personal and sovereign (supreme, independent
ruler) God (Deuteronomy 6:4; Psalm 24:1; 1
Thessalonians 1:9). His being is Spirit (John
4:24), and His
attributes are those essential qualities which
identify and describe His nature. Because
God is perfect, He cannot and will not act
contrary to His nature (Matthew 5:48; Leviticus
19:2).
God
is self-existent (John 5:26), truth (Numbers
23:19; Hebrews 6:18), infinite(Psalm 90:2),
unchanging (Malachi 3:6; James 1:17), all-knowing
(1 John 3:20), present everywhere at once
(Psalm 139:7-10),all-powerful (Jeremiah 32:17;
Matthew 19:26), righteous (Psalm 145:17),gracious,
merciful and abounding in loving-kindness
(Exodus 34:6), holy (1 Peter 1:15-16, just
(1 John 1:9),
faithful (2 Timothy 2:13), wise (Romans 16:27),
and sovereign (Psalm 115:3; Acts 2:23; 17:24-27;
Ephesians 1:11). God is, at least, all of
these attributes at all times and does not
lay aside any one of
them in completing His plans and purposes.
We
believe in the triune God (Isaiah 48:16; Matthew
3:16-17), one in essence (Deuteronomy 6:4),
yet manifest in three persons--Father, Son,
and Holy Spirit. The Father is God (1 Corinthians
8:6), the Son is God (Hebrews 1:5-8; Matthew
1:23; 1 John 5:20) and the Holy Spirit is
God (Acts 5:3-4)
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Section 3: Jesus Christ
We believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, God's
only begotten Son, who was conceived by the
Holy Spirit and born of the virgin Mary. In
the flesh, Jesus was one person, with two
natures--true God and true man, yet without
sin.
We
believe, according to the Scriptures, in the
historical, literal death, burial and bodily
resurrection of Jesus Christ. This act is
the satisfaction for the sins of the whole
world. We believe the resurrected Christ was
taken into heaven where He is now and always
lives to make intercession for the believers.
He will appear two more times: at a time yet
future, Christ will return and the believers
will be caught up with Him in the air, to
be with Him forever. In a separate event,
Christ will also return from heaven and reign
on earth for 1,000 years before the final
judgment of evil (Matthew 1:18, 23; Acts 1:11;
1 Corinthians 15:3-4; Ephesians 1:17; Philippians
2:5-8; 1 Thessalonians 4:14-17; Hebrews 2:17-18,
4:14-15, 7:25; 1 John 2:2, 4:9; Revelation
1:7, 19:11-20:15).
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Section 4: The Holy Spirit
We believe the person of the Holy Spirit is
God, and given by God to convict the world
of sin, righteousness and judgment,guide into
all truth, comfort, regenerate, sanctify and
daily lead those who are in Christ. He also
indwells forever, from the moment of regeneration,
and desires to empower, fill and minister
through the believer (John 3:3-5, 14:16-17,
16:8, 13; Acts 1:8, 5:3-4; Romans 8:9, 14;
1 Corinthians 12:11-13; Titus 3:5-6; Ephesians
1:13-14, 5:1-8; 1 Peter 1:2).
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Section 5: Salvation
We believe that man, in the person of Adam,
was created in innocence, but by voluntary transgression
entered into sin, thus plunging the whole human
race into condemnation and death; so that now
all mankind is, from conception, sinful and
shaped in iniquity, and all become willful sinners
with the
first expression of personal choice and so are
without excuse before God (Genesis 3; Psalm
51:5; Romans 5:10-19).
We believe that the only escape
from the condemnation of sin, and eternal
punishment in hell is through the redemption
effected by Jesus Christ. He voluntarily took
upon Himself a human body and nature, yet
without sin; and by His suffering, death,
burial and bodily resurrection, made full
justification before God for the sin of man.
God has graciously chosen and called the believer.
The free gift of salvation is given solely
by grace to all who personally repent and
believe/trust in Him. We believe that faith
in the finished work of Jesus Christ is the
only condition of salvation from sin, and
that this salvation is wholly by grace; and
that no works, however good, make this salvation
more secure (Matthew 25:46; Mark 9:43; John
1:12-13; Acts 16:30-33; Romans 2:5-6, 10:9-13;
2 Corinthians 7:10; Ephesians 2:1-10; Philippians
2:5-8; Titus 3:5-7; Hebrews 4:15, 10:4-14;
1 Peter 1:18-19).
We believe that every Christian,
as a new creation, will give some evidence
of personal conversion
(2 Corinthians 5:17; Romans 6:4; John 15:8;
Colossians 1:10).
We believe that all the redeemed,
once saved, are kept eternally secure by God's
power and manifest the work of that power
in their lives daily by refraining from sin
and conforming to Jesus Christ (John 6:37-40,
10:27-30; Romans 8:1, 8:38, 39; 1 Corinthians
1:4-8; I Peter 1:4-5).
The believer's security is
a matter for rejoicing and motivation to maturity
in Christ through daily obedience to God's
Word, clearly forbidding the abuse of Christian
liberty as an occasion to sin (Titus 2:11-15;
John 20:31; 1 John 5:13; Galatians 5:13; 1
Corinthians 8:13; 2 Peter 1:3-11).
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Section 6: The Church
We believe that the Church was initially identified
in the New Testament, having been a mystery
to the Old Testament prophets, but established
by Jesus Christ who is its sole Head. It is
empowered and perpetuated by the Holy Spirit.
It is Christ's "body" for service
and His "bride" for glory, being
completed at His return to earth (Matthew
16:18; 1 Corinthians 12:12-28; Ephesians 1:22-23,
5:23-33; Revelation 19:11-16).We
believe the "Church" is primarily
manifest through local churches that are comprised
of born-again believers who observe baptism
and the Lord's Supper, are governed only by
the word of God, and answer ultimately to
Jesus Christ (Matthew 18:15-17; 1 Corinthians
1:2, 7:17; 1 Timothy 3:1-15;
Acts 2:41-47, 14:23; Ephesians 5:23,27).
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Position on Divorce & Remarriage
I. Introduction
The matters discussed on the following pages
are an attempt to begin helping families and
individuals who find themselves effected by
marital distress or destruction. It is hoped
that eventually the information here will
aid in the recovery and re-establishment of
a vital, godly, fulfilling relationship with
Christ; both within one's family and the larger
church family. A fair presumption in discussion
of recovery is that something has moved from
its normal or proper state.
The first part of the following material is
designed to try to explain God's expectations
for personal behavior and thinking during
the time of marital distress or divorce. In
other words, what do we need to recover? Any
recovery, in any form, must start with God's
view from the Scriptures. Rather than primarily
consulting our culture with its quick acceptance
and even promotion of divorce as a solution
to marital difficulties, the designer of marriage,
God Himself, should be consulted. What follows
is an attempt to accurately, compassionately
and sincerely bring to the reader God's mind
in the Scripture on marital matters, particularly
divorce and remarriage.
II. Marriage
Marriage was instituted by God (Genesis 2:18-25)
and is to be regulated according to His word
revealed in the Bible. God's love for His
people has been illustrated by "marriage"
throughout history. During the old covenant,
He loved the chosen nation of Israel as their
husband (Isaiah 54:5) and looked forward to
a new covenant (Jeremiah 31:31-34) which Jesus
Christ has fulfilled (Hebrews 10:15-22). Christ,
as the husband of the church (II Corinthians
11:2), illustrates how all spouses are to
love one another (Ephesians 5:22-33). God
designed marriage as a permanent relationship
between one man and one woman, expecting Christians
and non-Christians to maintain that standard
(Matthew 19:3-6). Marriage is not an impossible
ideal, but through God's grace a real possibility.
III. Divorce
Divorce (and remarriage) is a subject that
has been greatly debated over the centuries
by godly individuals and scholars from every
theological bent. Therefore, the following
comments are offered by elders who are doing
their best to accurately handle the word of
truth, hold fast the faithful word of God
and exhort fellow Christians in sound doctrine
(II Timothy 2:15; Titus 1:9).
Bible passages that are clear and unambiguous
ought not to be compromised by interpreting
a difficult saying in another passage. The
grace of God may offer relief for some via
divorce, while providing perseverance in the
midst of great marital suffering for others.
Each situation must be carefully understood
in light of God's word and the ultimate goal
of any counseling should always be reconciliation
of the marriage. The first three chapters
of Hosea provide a godly model in the midst
of a broken marriage.
Compassion, sympathy and empathy are important
elements in approaching those experiencing
divorce. However, the singular most important
guide through the pain, trauma and desperation
of divorce is what the Scriptures teach.
If divorce occurs, each of us must graciously
and eagerly extend the same forgiveness, love
and mercy which God does to a repentant divorcee.
A sensitive concern for the human side of
divorce is always in order. Although forgiveness
may have been secured from God, His saints
also need to come alongside individuals who
are working through such temporal consequences
as grief, pain, confusion, anger, bitterness,
financial problems or violence. Divorce is
never encouraged in the Bible, being avoided
or only considered the last and most desperate
recourse.
Divorce situations -
A. Divorce between two Christians
(I Corinthians 7:10-11):
If two Christians become single (divorced),
they are to remain unmarried or else be reconciled
(remarried) to one another. Remarriage to
someone other than their former spouse is
disallowed. The only exception would be if
"immorality" occurs (see explanation
of "immorality" under B2).
B. Two other examples of divorce in which
God apparently recognizes the termination
of a marriage:
1. Divorce between a Christian and a non-Christian
I Corinthians 7:12-16
The non-Christian refuses to live with their
Christian spouse and "leaves" them.
"Leaves" means "divorces"
since it is used that way in several other
New Testament passages discussing divorce
(I Corinthians 7:10-11; Matthew 19:6). This
term often meant divorce including legal documents.
The elders have concluded, that in this situation,
each believer must ultimately decide whether
the author intended that the Christian who
has been left may pursue the finalizing of
a legal divorce when the non-Christian continues
a long term abandonment, but refuses to legally
end the marriage;
2. Divorce between any spouses Matthew 5:31-32,
19:9
The moral partner divorces their "immoral"
spouse. This general principle applies to
all combinations of partners: two Christians,
two non-Christians or one Christian and one
non-Christian.
"Immorality" includes every conceivable
sexual deviation (adultery, homosexuality,
prostitution, bestiality, etc.). Although
"non-sexual" issues such as verbal
or physical abuse, emotional trauma or irreconcilable
differences are not appropriate behavior,
God's word does not mention them as grounds
for divorce.
IV. Remarriage
Divorce does not imply automatically the option
to remarry. In fact, outside of the death
of one's spouse (Romans 7:2-3; I Corinthians
7:39), the Bible says little about remarriage.
The Bible recognizes the single life and its
advantages (I Corinthians 7:32-35), while
the Spirit of God supplies the resources necessary
to assist the unmarried believer to live in
purity with self-control (Galatians 5:16-25).
Two "divorce" situations previously
mentioned (Divorce, B1 & B2) may include
remarriage for the Christian who has been
"left" by their unbelieving mate
or for the "moral" spouse:
A. Remarriage might be implied in I Corinthians
7:15 when a Christian has been "left"
by their non-Christian spouse. Any counsel
to remarry must be given carefully since this
passage (I Corinthians 7:12-16) does not mention
remarriage. The context primarily centers
on the hope of the non-Christian becoming
saved (I Corinthians 7:14, 16), it might be
prudent to wait on remarriage until the unbeliever
returns, commits adultery or remarries.
B. Matthew 19:9 appears to give permission
for remarriage to the moral spouse who divorces
their "immoral" partner. Any counsel
to remarry must be given carefully. The potential
for committing adultery in remarriage definitely
exists (in both Mark 10:11-12, and Luke 16:18,
no "exception" for divorce is mentioned).
Jesus' words are to Christians and non-Christians
alike.
Other Considerations Regarding Marriage, Divorce
and Remarriage
I. Counseling
Since enough ambiguity exists in Scripture
regarding the topics of divorce and remarriage
so as to result in varying viewpoints among
earnest students of the Bible with submissive
and mature approaches, those who counsel believers
who are considering divorce and/or remarriage
are admonished to:
A. Carefully expose the counselee to all passages
which touch on divorce and remarriage (Matthew
5:27-32, 19:3-12; Mark 10:2-12; Luke 16:18;
Romans 7:1-6; I Corinthians 7:8-16, 39);
B. Explain a representative sample of the
various positions on the subject held by Godly
Bible expositors which differ from the position
held by the counselor;
C. Rely upon the ministry of the Holy Spirit
and the individual priesthood of the counselee
for the ultimate decision.
II. Other Considerations
After a divorced person is certain the Bible
allows for remarriage, other factors might
be discussed:
A. How has their growth been as a believer
and what kind of evidence is their life
bearing for the Lord?B. What has their attitude
been about their part in the divorce?
C. How have they been treating their former
spouse?
D. Are they in submission to spiritual authority
in their local fellowship and seeking counsel
from them?
E. What has their behavior toward the opposite
sex been like during the divorce and since
that time?
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Position on Church Restoration
"Brethren, even if a man is caught
in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore
such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one
looking to yourself, lest you too be tempted."
Galatians 6:1
"And
if your brother sins, go and reprove him in
private; if he listens to you, you have won
your brother." Matthew 18:15
The
purpose of this paper is to clearly present
what the elders of Grace Baptist Church believe
the Bible teaches about "restoration"
or "Church discipline" and how this
ministry is to be lovingly expressed.
The
Church of God is made up of "believers"
(i.e., individuals who have turned from their
sin to God and placed their faith in the Lord
Jesus Christ) [Acts 20:21; 1 Thessalonians
1:8-9]. God has uniquely equipped, and expects,
these believers to live in a manner consistent
with their faith [II Peter 1:1-8]. In fact,
someday Christ will present the Church, consisting
of these individuals, to Himself in all Her
glory, holy and without blame [Ephesians 5:25-27].
In
the meantime, God has graciously provided
the believer with sufficient resources to
live in a manner honoring Him. The following
are examples of some of these resources:
God's Holy Spirit is convicting Christians
of their sin and is also working His will
within them [John 16:8; Philippians 2:12-13];
God's Son, Jesus Christ, is calling the Church
to repentance and also interceding for those
He has saved [Revelation 2:5, 16, 22; Hebrews
7:25];
God Himself, is sanctifying the Church through
Christ, and cleansing Her with the word [Ephesians
5:26];
God's people are offering assistance to fellow
believers whenever restoration is necessary
[Galatians 6:1; Matthew 18:15].
God is holy, and commands every believer to
be likewise in all their behavior [I Peter
1:14-18; Matthew 5:48; Romans 6:17-19]. Such
a high standard often leaves them feeling
as though they have no right to address the
behavior of another, because of the painful
awareness of personal sin and inadequacy.
Nevertheless, God has also commanded believers
to go and assist another Christian who is
not turning from his sin. Jesus said, "Those
whom I love, I reprove and discipline; be
zealous therefore, and repent [Revelation
3:19]." Perhaps the very heart of God
is most clearly expressed by His children
when they extend a hand of restoration to
a fallen brother!
I. The Problem
Question: What is it that generates the need
for "restoration?"
Answer: Sin.
Restoration or Church discipline is God's
loving plan to confront and correct a matter
of sin in the life of anyone who bears the
name Christian. It is needed whenever any
"so-called brother" refuses to turn
from any sin which is publicly known [Matthew
18:15; I Corinthians 5:1, 11; Galatians 6:1].
Although God will repay unbelievers for their
sin [Deuteronomy 32:35; Romans 12:19-20],
He has made Christians responsible to look
after each other in their daily conduct.
Thus,
if the invitation to turn from sin is continually
ignored, the Christian community is instructed
to judge that brother as guilty and completely
remove him from their midst [I Corinthians
5:3-5, 12-13; Matthew 18:17]. However, by
the grace of God and man's cooperation, Church
discipline need not proceed to that extreme.
All
sins which are not repented of are to be "carefronted"
without exception ("Brethren, even if
a man is caught in any trespass, you who are
spiritual, restore such a one..." Galatians
6:1). Matters of personal taste and differences
of opinion are excluded. The final authority
in differentiating between an area of one's
"freedom in Christ" and actually
living in a sinful manner is God's word [Galatians
5:13; Matthew 13:52; II Timothy 2:15; Psalm
119:9-11; Hebrews 4:12-13].
God's
word provides some specific sins which serve
as guidelines in this process.
For
example: don't associate with those who are
immoral, covetous, idolaters, drunkards, swindlers,
attacking others with abusive language [I
Corinthians 5:11];
observe closely and then avoid those who cause
divisions and others to stumble [Romans 16:17].
These verses, and many others (Mark 7:21-22;
Galatians 5:19-21; II Timothy 3:1-5; Titus
3:10-11; Proverbs 6:16-19), enable one to
deal with specific issues while attempting
to convince a brother to repent who has turned
away from the Lord.
II.
The Purpose
Question: Why should Christians attempt to
gain a brother back from their sin?
Answer: Restoration.
Church discipline is a means to only one end
--- the restoration of a fallen Christian
to a former condition of right standing with
God and his fellow brother. Punishment is
designed to penalize one for his offense.
Discipline, however, aims at correcting one's
behavior in order to return them back to a
place of purity and usefulness.
God
disciplines those He loves for their good,
that they may share His holiness. Although
the process is marked by pain and sorrow,
discipline is designed to yield righteous
behavior, and provide a vehicle of healing
for those who have been temporarily crippled
by sin [Hebrews 12:5-12].
Thus,
with the purposes of God on "discipline"
before them, Christians strive to assist an
erring brother to see the truth and turn back
to God. Paul's words are not designed to disgrace,
dishonor or humiliate, but to "shame"
one into a self-examination that reveals the
truth and turns to it [II Thessalonians 3:14;
Titus 2:8]. The result will be repentant individuals,
restored like the prodigal son and "sound"
(healthy) in the faith [Luke 15:18, 27; Titus
1:13].
The
attempt to restore a fallen brother is mandated
for a couple of reasons:
- It is not acceptable for those who are called
"brother" to dishonor and profane
God's name through continued disobedience
[Ezekiel 36:20-23] .
-The one who continues in sin infects others
within the fellowship by their example. A
seemingly insignificant and miniscule situation
involving sin can potentially leave the entire
body with a life-threatening gangrenous infection
[I Corinthians 5:6].
-The word "restore" in Galatians
6:1 has a variety of uses. The various nuances
amplify different aspects of the same process.
To "restore" (katartizo):
a. mending nets, putting them back into a
state of usefulness [Matthew 4:21];
b. properly outfitting a ship for its voyage;
c. equipping a soldier for battle;
d. joining together or setting a dislocated
or fractured bone.
Some
of the practical implications of restoration
may be summarily stated as follows:
Under the "new covenant", restoration
is accompanied by a forgiveness from each
believer which does not seek revenge or hold
against the sinner that which God has forgiven
and forgotten [Luke 17:3-4; Hebrews 8:12];
Restoration requires others to patiently endure
with and equip the disciplined brother in
order to avoid further failure [Galatians
6:2; Ephesians 4:11-13];
Restoration
may, depending on the circumstances and individual(s)
involved, entail a period of "immobilization"
for the purpose of healing in the area of
sin. [This will also provide for others effected
through this process a time to heal emotionally,
physically and spiritually. Prognostication
is a logical part of the restoration process.
For example, if an individual who counts the
offerings each week was caught stealing and
repented, how wise would it be to put him
back in the same situation immediately? Just
as immediate restoration may be indicated
on occasion, so might a temporary removal
from ministry be appropriate.]
Restoration, although beneficial, is a painful
process due to the nature of sin and its effect
on others [Hebrews 12:11; Psalm 32:1-5; II
Corinthians 7:10]; therefore, proper healing
will probably need a period of time;
Restoration is a time to extend comfort and
reaffirmation of one's love to a repentant
brother [II Corinthians 2:6-8];
Restoration, successful or not, serves as
a reminder that God's people will not compromise
His commands in their desire to obey Him.
Restoration is ever and always seeking the
return of a sinner to his former condition
of reconciliation with God and man.
III. The People
Question: Who is responsible to offer "restoration"?
Answer: Each believer.
God has graciously effected a thorough change
for every believer through Jesus Christ. He
has made them new creations, reconciled to
Himself. As a result, Christians are now ambassadors
for Christ to reconcile others to God. Therefore,
whenever another brother sins, each believer
is responsible to assist in their reconciliation
[II Corinthians 5:17-20].
Jesus
said, "...if your brother sins, go and
reprove him... [Matthew 18:15]
Paul
said, "Brethren, even if a man is caught
in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore
such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each
one looking to yourself, lest you too be tempted."
[Galatians 6:1]
The
call to reprove and restore is universal to
every believer. Yet, Paul highlights several
characteristics which ought to be present
in the lives of those involved:
~Spiritual
people: When the Holy Spirit is leading a
Christian, his life will manifest "spiritual"
qualities. Paul calls to action those who
are walking under the control of the Spirit
of God to restore a fallen brother [Galatians
5:16, 22-26]. The Christian who may be unable
to forgive, be objective or otherwise exhibit
a character of godliness is to let another
do the restoring.
~Gentle
people: Gentle means humble, considerate,
forbearing, patiently submissive to offense,
free from malice or revenge. This kind of
manifestation is a result of the Holy Spirit's
influence in a believer [Galatians 5:16, 18,
22-23]. This word was also used in secular
Greek for taming wild animals. It does not
connote weakness, hesitation or compromise.
It is an approach that is firm, honest, straightforward
and considerate.
~Alert
people: The one who restores must continually
give diligent attention to himself, lest Satan
successfully tempt him. Even the "spiritual"
one must be ever on the alert for the deceitful
tactics of the adversary who is constantly
seeking those whom he could devour; especially
while they have set about to turn a sinner
back to God [I Peter 5:8]. However, the adversary's
tactics are countered by Almighty God ---
who is continually looking to strongly support
those whose heart is completely His [II Chronicles
16:9a].
The
people of God who are obedient to the command
of "going" in order to reprove and
restore will run the risk of being misunderstood
and criticized by others. Whoever refuses
to obey God's commands also faces a sure and
costly consequence from the Lord Himself [Galatians
6:7-10]. The one who has truly given Jesus
Christ first place in his heart is compelled
to carry out all of His teaching, no matter
what the cost [Acts 20:24, 27-28; Galatians
1:10; Colossians 1:18]. The people of God
will not sacrifice the purity of the body
of Christ by refusing to love fallen brothers
enough to help them up.
IV. The Procedure
Question: How does one begin to help a fallen
brother?
Answer: Meet together in private.
The steps to be taken in Church discipline
are not stated in such a manner as to leave
one without direction nor are they so ordered
that there is no latitude. The elders at Grace
Baptist Church do not ever want to ignore
or cover up sin; but believe there is some
flexibility in discovering the best approach
to bringing about restoration.
There
is evidence that the Apostle Paul did not
try to match every situation with a previously
determined set of airtight procedures. Some
of these examples will be noted following
the instruction Jesus gave in Matthew 18:15-17.
Grace Baptist Church encourages Christians
to follow Jesus' teaching as a general pattern,
but to also be aware of the latitude which
is available according to other examples in
the New Testament.
Jesus
Teaching in Matthew 18:15-17
STEP
#1 (v. 15) - A private encounter
"And if your brother sins, go and reprove
him in private; if he listens to you, you
have won your brother."
Meet privately (1 on 1) with the sinning brother.
Reprove the sinning brother. That is, bring
to light the sin, exposing it with the intent
of him becoming convinced and convicted about
it. This implies more than a tactful and sensitive
establishment of facts. The same word for
"reprove" in Matthew18:15, is used
to describe the work of the Holy Spirit in
convicting the world concerning sin, and righteousness
and judgment [John 16:8]. It also describes
the action taken against an elder who is rebuked
because of continued sin [I Timothy 5:20].
It is clear that the aim of this reproof is
to awaken one to his sinful condition that
he may repent of it immediately. If the sinner
never comes to a place of repentance, then
forgiveness cannot be granted and the entire
process of restoration is stalled [Luke 17:3].
The
Greek words for repentance in the New Testament
are of great value in understanding what must
take place for true reconciliation with God
and then man:
metamelomai
- expresses the "feeling" of repentance
for sin but need not involve a true turning
of a man to God [Matthew 21:30,32]. Judas
felt this kind of regret for his betrayal
of Christ, admitted his sin, but then went
and hung himself [Matthew 27:3-5]. This word
describes one who looks back, with regret,
but not necessarily one who turns to God.
epistrepho
- expresses a true conversion of one who turns
his will from sin to God. The result is complete
transformation that results in forgiveness
of sin, salvation and a changed life [Acts
26:18; I Thessalonians 1:9; Matthew 18:3].
It is a synonym for the final word, metanoeo.
metanoeo - expresses a conscious turning from
sin (a change of mind). The
decision by the whole man, in thought and
deed, to turn around is stressed. This repentance
brings forth evidence in one's life of the
change that transpired in the mind and heart
[Matthew 3:8; Mark 1:15; II Corinthians 7:9-10].
It
is possible for one to seek for metanoeo repentance
with tears as Esau did and find no place for
it [Hebrews 12:16-17]. Therefore, discernment
as to the heart of one who speaks of repentance
is a priority in Church discipline [Hebrews
5:14; Proverbs 10:13]. Satan's ability to
deceive is evident by the fact that one's
words sometimes contradict his or her heart
[Jeremiah 17:9; Matthew 15:7-9]. God looks
upon the heart of man who may say and even
do what appears outwardly good. It is exactly
at this point Christians must ultimately discern
whether or not a brother has turned from their
sin [Isaiah 1:11-20; I Samuel 15:22].
C.
If the sinner "listens" [i.e., hears
and acts upon the truth [John 5:25, 9:27;
Acts 28:28], it is as though a great treasure
has been retrieved. Extend full and complete
fellowship to that one as well as any necessary
ongoing support. But if he refuses to listen,
the process continues to the second step.
STEP
#2 (v. 16) - Meet a second time and
take one or two witnesses
"But if he does not listen to you, take
one or two more with you, so that by the mouth
of two or three witnesses every fact (word)
may be confirmed."
Although
the witnesses may have first hand knowledge
of the sin, it is not required or implied.
The purpose of the witness(es) is likely for
one or all of the following reasons:
- to strengthen the reproof with a view toward
repentance and restoration;
- to cause the transgressor to realize the
seriousness of his situation;
- to fulfill the requirement of more than
one witness to establish the veracity of a
matter [2 or 3 witnesses were necessary to
confirm a matter in the Old Testament/Deuteronomy
19:15-20]
If he continues to ignore this group's reproof,
further action is mandated.
STEP
#3 (v. 17a) - Tell it to the "church"
"And if he refuses to listen to them,
tell it to the church;..."
The privacy which was extended in the first
two meetings is now forfeited due to the transgressors
continual refusal to act upon the reproof
which has been repeated. Thus, the matter
is told to the "church" or group
of people the individual is a part of. The
purpose is so the larger body may make an
appropriate attempt at convincing the fallen
brother of his need to repent. Believers are
members of one body in Christ and are to have
the same care for one another [I Corinthians
12:12, 20, 25]. How the matter is told to
the "church" is somewhat flexible.
It may be written in a bulletin or a letter;
or spoken during a service or special meeting.
At any rate, it ought to encourage the individuals
who hear to find their role in extending a
hand of restoration.
If
the "church" is unable to get the
transgressor to "listen," a final
step must be carried out. Although God's Spirit
is calling the sinner back to Himself and
there is no prescribed timetable for moving
from step to step, long delays often allow
the "leaven" of sin to infest healthy
individuals within the body.
If
an individual is ever removed, it is with
the knowledge that God can use even those
circumstances to "restore" that
individual to Himself and the fellowship.
STEP
#4 (v. 17b) - Excommunication
"...and if he refuses to listen even
to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile
and a tax-gatherer."
The
sinning party is now excluded from any form
of church worship or fellowship as well as
avoided socially outside of the "church"
("...not
even to eat with such a one" -- I Corinthians
5:11 ) [I Corinthians 5:4-5 ].
The
believers have weighed all the evidence, lovingly
extended reproof and now must completely remove
the individual from their assembly [I Corinthians
2:14-15; 5:1, 5-7, 12-13].
Although
this is a most severe step, it should be motivated
out of love for the brother and done in a
manner which encourages repentance and restoration.
It is also a response of love to a holy God
who has provided a means to cleanse His church
of impurity while calling the sinner back
to Himself.
A
Random Sample Of Paul's Response To Sin
Paul does not appear to have used all of the
instructions that Jesus gave in the eighteenth
chapter of Matthew. Perhaps this will give
a greater understanding to the latitude which
God has given us in these matters.
1.
Public reproof against an elder who continues
to sin [I Timothy 5:17-21 ].
2. A face-to-face, opposition of Peter's hypocritical
behavior [Galatians 2:11-13 ].
3. Stop mixing together or associating with
those leading lives of sin [II Thessalonians
3:6, 14; I Corinthians 5:9, 11, 13 ].
4. Turn away from those who cause divisions
and hindrances [Romans 16:17-18 ].
Obviously,
there is some latitude for arriving at the
most appropriate procedure to bring about
restoration. Certain steps have been noted
in this paper and should serve as a general
guideline in these matters. However, each
person, as well as their situation, is unique
and ought to be approached in such a manner.
Christians must seek wisdom from the Holy
Spirit in determining the most profitable
manner in which sinful people may be restored.
Further
Reading on Restoration
Augsburger, David. Caring Enough to Confront.
Glendale, Calif.: Regal Books Division. G/L
Publications, 1973.
Baker, Don. Beyond Forgiveness. Portland:
Multnomah Press, 1984.
Engle, Paul E. "When It's Okay to Pass
Judgment." Moody Monthly (May 1981):
37-39.
Laney, J. Carl. A Guide to Church Discipline.
Minneapolis, Minnesota: Bethany House Publishers,
1985.Lutzer, Erwin W. "Restoring the
Fallen." Moody Monthly (June 1984): 106-107.
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